The times when we shout at people around us for no reason is because somewhere inside we are sad or hurt and cannot find a way to express it… But we have no right to upset someone else. If we are sad its nothing to do with them so why are we punishing them? Whenever we find ourselves shouting at or fighting with our loved ones when they haven’t done anything wrong, we must stop and remind ourselves that they are with us because they love us… Their love is a blessing and we must learn not to take it for granted and treat them badly… because if we don’t stop and realize this… If we keep fighting with every person who tries to come near us – no one will ever stay… because no one wants to be hurt or taken for granted when they don’t deserve it… So we can’t take our frustrations out on them and keep hurting them like that. No matter how patient and loving they are – not everyone stays forever, and every person has a tolerance level and we should never make anyone reach theirs. Every person wants to be loved… and if we want to be loved and supported by our loved ones, we must not take them for granted and should treat them with the love and respect they deserve. Neena Gupta.