If you have no intentions of holding onto her – then don’t make her fall for you. If you are not interested in spending your life with her, then don’t pamper her, spoil her or make her feel like she’s special to you if she isn’t. The bottom line is, if you’re not putting your 100% commitment into your relationship, then don’t expect her to be honest with you… because you’re not being honest with her. Don’t mess with a woman’s feelings or toy with her heart. If you know you aren’t going to stay with her for life then you’re just playing with her heart and leaving her shattered is the worst thing a man can possibly do. Don’t you know that hearts, once broken, never mend and trusting people are never the same after being lied to and cheated on. Neena Gupta.