You really upset me. I honestly thought that after being in a relationship for awhile, you’d learn the real meaning of life and become more responsible and mature. But no I was wrong. In fact, you seem to become more and more dependent on me as time goes on. Every day you seem to find new ways to avoid doing the things you ought to do and leave everything on me. I want you to be dependable and mature… I want you to grow up. But I don’t think that’s possible, at least not with me. I can see you’re in trouble and that’s why I never say no to you… but I get so angry and upset with you when you leave everything on me all the time. You’re immature, irresponsible and you’ll never change while I keep enabling your bad behavior, so I think it’s time to leave you alone to your own bad decisions… Only then will you finally understand life. Neena Gupta.