If you feel he doesn’t appreciate your presence like he used to – try giving him a taste of your absence. … Not for too long, after all a relationship requires two people together to make it work – but sometimes it’s essential to your partner space. Sometimes you need to be reminded of how much you love each other by realizing what it feels like to miss each other. After a few years, relationships can sometimes become dull and monotonous… it’s easy to take someone for granted when they’re around you 24/7. Sometimes the best way to bring back the spark is to invoke the feeling of longing… that feeling of missing the one that we love. Sometimes people forget how important they are to each other because they are never without one another and a break can help them remember… But when spending time apart it’s important not to leave it too long… after all, you need to make sure they won’t get used to it! The aim is for you to miss each other… to want to call or text one another because you just can’t bear to be apart anymore. So never give so much absence that he starts forgetting you… because too long of an absence leads to distance in the relationship that may never be repaired… Or worse… the distance between you may create a place for someone else to come between you……Neena Gupta.