It’s the people who hate other people that are actually the ones with the problem… They feel insecure and jealous. They feel as if they are in competition with everyone to be better – and therefore more important. They are in fact, so intimidated by others, that they only ever say negative things about them without ever actually realizing the problem is within themselves. It’s not other people’s faults – it’s their own fear, their own jealousy… their own obsession and insecurity. They don’t even realize that the people they are trying to bring down are actually above them and are the better people. Don’t ever be fooled… people only ever say bad things about you because it’s the only way they can make themselves feel better. When someone is jealous of you, they keep thinking about you all the time… hence the very thought of you captures their mind and makes you the center of their focus. You have essentially become the most important and relevant person in the life of a twisted and negative person. A jealous person does more research than FBI to find your weaknesses, and hence knows more about you than you think… So be wary – all their attention is always on you… But don’t let them bring you down – you should be flattered… because as much as they may dislike you, you are still the most important person in their world….Neena Gupta.