Don’t think about someone who doesn’t even spare a moment to think about you… Don’t waste any more energy on someone who doesn’t reply to your messages… You are wasting your feelings and time on a person who doesn’t hold any value in them… Love is something that cannot be forced… it either happens or it doesn’t and when it does it happens in the blink of an eye. Love is not something you can beg for or keep asking for. So if someone doesn’t return your love, don’t give them so much importance in your life. Don’t waste your affection on people who don’t value your love… for whom your presence or absence doesn’t matter. Don’t get upset over people who only ever need you when they want something from you… YOU are important too… So never give away your feelings or your time to a person who doesn’t even want them… Don’t waste your tears on a person who doesn’t value them.. If they’re not returning your love with love, then it’s not a real relationship…Love never has to be planned or negotiated – when two people are destined to be together they don’t have to think about it or work on it…it just happens… There won’t be the constant tears and fights… just love. That’s what you deserve – so go out and find it!……Neena Gupta.
The person we are today is a result of everything that’s happened to us in our past. Everything we’ve ever been through makes us the person we are today… Our childhood memories play an important part in shaping both our lives and our personalities… So much of that time was spent obeying our elders and doing things their way, with our own choices and desires put aside whilst keeping our hurt inside. But sometimes that hurt and frustration gathered from years of doing things we didn’t want to do can make us a rude and a negative person if we’re not careful… Sometimes we can become so pessimistic that we don’t even try to see good things around us anymore. Worse still – sometimes we shout at those we love, letting out all that collected anger that really wasn’t meant for them. We forget just how harmful those feelings can be to our friends and family, and that all that negativity just might push away the people who wanted to be close to us if we do not change our ways. The people in our lives need love and encouragement, and we should be strong enough to give it to them – even if it’s something we never grew up with. Every person has two choices in life… to give out love and positivity regardless of whether you received it or not… or to give back only the negative you received and end up alone. I believe that if we give only love and happiness and do everything in our power to make others happy, it will be returned to us. If we accept our bad memories are in our past, and not punish the people in our present for them we can move forward and make our future a better place to live with people we love…!!Neena Gupta.