No matter how much you love him or how much you want him in your life, you can’t wait forever. You need to face the fact that you’re probably shedding tears for someone who’s happy with their life the way it is, or whoever they are with. You cannot love alone. Love is only true when its call is answered. If he truly loved you, then your cries would “create” a quiver in his heart. Love should be two hearts singing to the same song, and two people that share the same feelings towards each other. If he is happy living HIS life without you while you are miserable living YOURS without him, that is not Love. It’s just a dream that won’t come true, and it’s time to move on because your life matters too…Neena Gupta.
Even when we’re apart, I still carry you with me everywhere I go. You are in the smile I cannot contain and the laughter I cannot control.You are the thought that pops into my head when I’m thinking nothing at all and the person I imagine when I listen to song lyrics. You are my inspiration to be the best possible version of me – not to please you – but because you make me believe in myself and encourage me to reach for my dreams. You are the sunshine that makes my good days better and my bad days barely even matter…And though I miss you while we’re separated, there is nothing on this earth that compares to the feeling of seeing you again. It is like a wave of happiness washing over me, like I can finally breathe again…. like my whole world has stood still until we’re together once more….!!! Ranata Suzuki.
We are told so many things about ourselves throughout our life. Some we pay far too much attention to – and others nowhere near enough. There are the things we tell ourselves late at night when the darkness outside creeps into our minds; or the thoughts we whisper to ourselves standing in front of bathroom mirrors with tears running down our cheeks. These are false truths we need to let go of as we cannot see ourselves objectively from the outside perspective others do.The things we should pay the most attention to – the greatest truths about ourselves – are held within the things our loved ones write to us. The words they penned in letters, cards and poems; on the backs of photographs; in the covers of books; on post-it notes; the household whiteboard; or in random text messages…Those are the quiet truths that are the most heartfelt…. Things that were too delicate to say in person, or things that they knew we would probably dismiss as mere politeness if they did. So they wrote them down for us so we could read them again and again until the message sinks in…. that we matter.That we are beautiful and special; remembered and thought of; loved and cherished.These are the things we should be rereading until they become the truths of ourselves we start believing…Ranata Suzuki.
I don’t know how and when, but there is a gap that has developed between us over time. There was a time when too much time together felt like not enough and now, our tender moments are further apart. There was a time when we fell short of words when there was so much to talk about, and now, we have nothing to talk about or say to one another. There was a time when we wanted to spend every moment looking at and adoring each other, and now, we ignore each other doing things to keep us busy.
I don’t want this fate. Let’s work on this together. I want us to be closer again like we used to be; deeply IN-LOVE with each other again. I want to have those long talks and sleepless nights. All I want is for YOU and ME to work on this…Together…!! Neena Gupta.